A short note tonight to lend my love, light and support to my circle of troubled witches... tough times will end. You'll see.

Blessings and love to you all... xxx ooo

I don’t even know what to say… so I’ve stayed silent. My heart aches for ALL involved and affected by this latest CS drama. Normally I stay far beyond the reaches of such things but this one hit close. Very close. I bear no anger or animosity but I am full to the brim with sorrow for the way this all played out. I can’t hold there too long however, least I be soured to the whole online experience. I’ve made too many beautiful connections to allow that to happen… So I will say this and then no more of it.

I am very glad that those who stayed, stayed and I am very sorry that those who left, left.

I will return to balance and will remain, as ever, in a loving place. I will continue to hold all my dear friends close to my heart and I must believe that I will be held, in kind.

Blessings and love… xxx ooo

Morning all! Things are finally settling down and I have a few moments in between taxi service and other commitments to jot a blog. Amber is sore but healing well. The poor girl has had a stomach bug for the last couple of days just to top it off ... bleh :( I've had the boys most all the time so it shouldn't get passed around, I hope. What rotten luck, eh?

The weather has been overcast, rainy and very chilly all week. I've had a fire going every morning and evening this week and although it's very cozy... I really would like to throw open the windows again at some point. The chilly temps are holding the lilacs nicely so that's a plus :)

Three day weekend... Yea!!!! This is typically the time we do all the cemetery plantings but I'm woefully short of funds and time. I will go around and clean up the graves and place flags though... the flowers will have to wait, I guess. Nana and I would hit every cemetery within a 25 mile radius, I swear, lol! One grave I've never been able to find is that of Will's uncle who died on Iwo Jima. According to his mother there's a marker for him in West Point's cemetery but we've been there several times and haven't been able to locate it.

Nationwide Gravesite Locator

I hope everyone has a safe and blessed Memorial Day weekend.. lets not forget the traditional observance of the day amidst the picnics and fun. We've been known to picnic in the graveyard!

I'll leave you with the link to a fabulous site... one of my very favs and most visited.

http://www.organicconsumers.org/index.htm

The buying guide is particularly handy and they have a great bi-weekly newsletter too!

Blessings and love to all. You remain close in thought always... xxx ooo

Candles burn for those in need... head high, heart strong... my dears.

*That went just beautifully! Thank you all soo much! He's home and not feeling too badly at all... just a sore throat :( I rescanned their picture so my carrot top and toe head actually look red and blonde, lol... sweet boys <3 ...thanks again for protective and healing thoughts. You guys are the best (((collective group hug))) Ha! Blessings... xxx ooo*

Tomorrow morning at the crack of dawn (ok, I might be embellishing a bit, lol! 7 am) Amber's middle son, Aiden will be getting tubes in his ears. A relatively simple procedure but anesthesia and a one yr old... there are always risks. If you could just send a little something out to the Universal, on his behalf, I'd be most grateful... Thanks, in advance :)

We found out this past week that his older brother, Andrew, has some significant hearing damage and he will require more testing in the coming weeks to help us decide the most appropriate treatment and correction for him. He's not quite three but already a young master of sign! His preferred method of communication... he's putting Nana through her paces, he is! We were hoping that a set of tubes in his ears would let him hear and speak clearly or at least clearer by his third b-day. That doesn't appear to be the case now :(

He, btw, is happy as a clam... sweet boy <3

Andrew and Aiden ~ Spring '08

Sorry it's such a poor scan :( I'll try and fix tomorrow...

Oh and one more medical issue to address :( Amber will have her gall bladder removed on June 20th. I know it's a ways off but she's in a fair amount of pain and essentionally the only one caring for her three little boys. A little witchy umph couldn't hurt, eh? Thanks, guys :)

Blessings and love... xxx ooo

1. Rather than writing checks and stuffing envelopes each month, switch to tree-free billing and pay everything from your credit card to your cell phone bills online. Forests not only remove CO2 from the air but are richly complex ecosystems, providing habitat for mammals, birds, plants, insects and mushrooms and other fungi to thrive. Approximately one billion trees worth of paper are thrown away every year in the U.S. For the paper products you do have to use, like tissues and toilet paper, consult The Green Guide's Paper Products Smart Shopper's Card www.thegreenguide.com.

2. Join a community supported agriculture (CSA) program at www.localharvest.org or www.biodynamics.com (which also lists CSAs in Canada). By becoming a shareholder of a community supported organic farm or garden, you can back pesticide-free agriculture and fund businesses in your area. In return, you and your family will enjoy weekly baskets of whatever your grower provides—fresh produce, fruit, flowers, or herbs. Plus, eating local, seasonal foods preserves indigenous crops and agricultural methods beneficial to a large variety of species.

3. Get involved at the local level. Find out the quality of your community's rivers and streams at the EPA's "Window to My Environment," www.epa.gov. If those in your area show a high level of contaminants, go to a local government meeting and encourage political leaders to clean them up. Because wastewater treatment plants don't remove chemical contaminants, aquatic biodiversity is threatened by chemicals in pharmaceuticals and personal care products. A growing number of studies are finding hormone-disrupting phthalates common in pills and lotions are interfering with the reproductive abilities of fish.

4. Buy local honey at your farmer's market or www.honeylocator.com. All around the country large and small beekeeping operations are registering staggering losses of honeybees, with some farmers reporting population drops of 99 percent. While there is no obvious single cause, pesticides, parasitic mites and loss of woodland habitat are all considered culprits. Vital to agriculture, honeybees are responsible for pollinating $14 billion dollars worth of U.S. crops and, according to the American Beekeeping Federation, a third of the food Americans eat.

5. Turn your backyard into a wildlife habitat. Visit the National Wildlife Federation's (NWF) "Garden For Wildlife," and see what you can do to attract songbirds, butterflies and native species. Then certify your habitat, along with 75,000 other NWF-certified yards, community gardens, school grounds and business sites across the U.S. and Canada at www.nwf.org. Certification requirements include providing shelter, water and food, using least-toxic pesticides and water conservation.

6. Buy a native houseplant at your farmer's market. Better yet, plant a native tree in a community park, by your local river way or seaside. Native trees provide food and shelter for indigenous insects and animal life and create niches for species pushed out by monoculture commercial forests.

7. Help the butterflies by purchasing $16 worth of milkweed seeds from monarchwatch.org. Monarch butterflies lay eggs in milkweed, which is the only crop larvae eat from the time they're born to the time they form a chrysalis. The butterflies are rapidly losing their patches of habitat across the U.S. and Mexico, where both eastern and western monarchs migrate in the winter, due to climate change, agricultural pesticides and population growth. Butterflies are bio-indicators that scientists look to for signs of landscape quality and habitat loss.

8. Conserve an endangered or threatened species indigenous to your area, whether it's the Ohio mussel, the Georgia sea turtle, or the Puerto Rican Parrot, the only parrot species native to the U.S. The Association of Fish & Wildlife Agencies provides a listing of state department web sites, where you can learn more about the plants and animals in your area and how you can save them www.fishwildlife.org.

9. Eat healthier fish. Not only do certain fish species contain high levels of mercury but many of the world's fisheries are either farmed destructively, severely overfished or under threat from invasive species. Over-extraction has lead to depleted water supplies and invasive species encroachment in the Rio Grande, where 32 freshwater fish species have been displaced, according to the World Wildlife Fund. For a quick reference on which fish are best, see The Green Guide's Fish Picks Smart Shopper's Card www.thegreenguide.com.

10. Join Frog Watch USA, a partnership of the National Wildlife Federation and the U.S. Geological Survey. Volunteer—only 20 minutes a week to listen and observe at a nearby wetland—to help scientists study the state of the declining frog and toad populations across the nation. Understanding amphibian populations is crucial to finding out the affect of human activity on water quality, habitat and ecological processes www.frogwatch.org.

Blessings and love... xxx ooo